I should looking at my notes and tutorials but not sitting here to blog
But i have a strong feeling to do this after watching a video called "Strangers, again" and
after the argument with him
I even found a blog which summing up all the stages mentioned in the video
Stage 1: Meeting
This is the time when we met each other and and will try so hard do anything for each other to impress them
Stage 2: Chase
This is where two people become so blinded by their love for each other, that all they see is how great the other person is, and how lucky they are to have found this person.
Stage 3: Honeymoon
I believe that this is the best stage for most couples, so do we. During this stage, we fall so deep for each other, so eager to know every single details about each other and doing things like couple almost everyday.
Stage 4: Comfortable
This is the turning point in a relationship. It can either grow stronger or go downhill. Being comfortable isn't bad because we can truly be ourselves. But it depends on what we do with that comfort. Some use it positively, continuing to work at their relationship, and grow together. But others allow it to create distance and take it for granted.
Stage 5: Tolerance
This is when the couple would constantly fight almost every single day, usually about the little, petty things. However, all these small fights would continue on, and the distance between you grows with it. When you just can't stand the other person anymore, then breaking up happens.
Stage 6:Downhill
In this stage, problems just continue and arguments never get solved. But the two of you wouldn't even remember what it is you were fighting about. This is a very short stage because the transition from stage 6 to 7 happens very quickly. When the relationship just seems so bad, that you couldn't see anything good out of relationship anymore. Your only choice is to break up.
Stage 7: Breaking up
This is when the two people will start a new path, right back to where they started, strangers.
It was hurtful when i watch this video. After that, i was asking myself, which stages r we now? Sometimes i'm pretty sure that we had passed the Honeymoon stage. But does it means that we are going downhill?
We always argued for small matters and the hatred starts to come. I start to feel tired with this and feel like going backwards from all of these.
I don't know how he feels now, maybe he feels the same as me? But the weird thing is, when i look back our sweet memories, i questioned myself again: why cant i put more effort in this?
Actually, after the last serious incident, I changed. I keep more to myself rather than giving out in this relationship. I will still continue but not as passionate as before. I knew this. We argued on last tuesday and i ran away from canteen n went home alone. He never come to find me and call me. This made me feel more disappointed. Today, he said the wrong thing. He just gave me "not enough sleep" and "they are jokes" for reason. HAHA! Means im not humorous? Or i'm taking everything too serious?
Enough for emosss. Get back to studies. I really wonder can our relationship last for long?
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